The 3-3-3 rule
Many shelters use the 3-3-3 rule as a rough guide. Every dog is different, but it helps set expectations.
- First 3 days: your dog may feel overwhelmed. It might hide, not eat much or seem shut down. That's normal.
- First 3 weeks: your dog starts learning the routine and showing more personality, including some behavior you'll need to work on.
- First 3 months: most dogs feel at home, trust you and settle into the routine.
Before you bring your dog home
- Set up a quiet space with a bed or crate where your dog can rest undisturbed.
- Get the same food the shelter used, so meals stay familiar.
- Put an ID tag with your phone number on the collar before leaving the shelter.
- Ask the shelter for all medical records, and put them in one place.
The first days
- Keep things quiet. Hold off on visitors, dog parks and big outings.
- Stick to a routine for meals, walks and potty breaks.
- Let your dog come to you. Don't force cuddles. Calm, patient attention builds trust.
- Use a secure harness and leash. New dogs can bolt when scared.
- Book a vet checkup in the first couple of weeks.
Common mistakes to avoid
- Too much, too soon: lots of new people, places and dogs at once
- Leaving a new dog alone for long stretches right away
- Expecting perfect house training on day one, even from adult dogs
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What is the 3-3-3 rule for rescue dogs?
A rough guide for settling in: the first 3 days are often overwhelming, by 3 weeks your dog learns the routine, and by 3 months most dogs feel at home.
Is it normal for a rescue dog not to eat at first?
A day or two of low appetite can be normal while a dog adjusts. If it lasts longer, or your dog seems unwell, call your vet.
How long does it take a rescue dog to adjust?
Many dogs feel settled within about three months, but some take longer. Patience and a steady routine help most.
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